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Location: SW Side (The house with the lights still on...) | I'm just curious as to what others in Houston think about open relationships.
True example:
One of my good friends is married over 10 yrs, with 3 kids. He's an attractive guy, self employed, fun, and driven to succeed. Well we fell out of touch for a while cause he's in another state but we started talking again over the phone. Well I knew he had gotten married and he told me a bunch of things about the relationship. At one point right after marriage he got really involved in the church, adopted her daughter and was making a run at the whole "till death..." thing. Well turns out she was cheating. So he turned back into the horndog he was before they met shortly there after and had been much more happier it seemed with his life in general. He still loved his wife and they got past it but here is the kicker. Now she is the good girl and he is constantly stepping out. To top it off she knows all about it and actually encourages him. For instance we have been in a club here in Houston and he was having a tough time getting attention from the women, so this dude actually called his wife who in turn gave him a "peep talk" to pump him up for the evening, to the effect of "go get'em tiger". I was in SHOCK ! So I saw a pic of his wife once but it wasn't that good and I wasn't that interested to tell the truth. But I flew out to visit him in his state and meet the family. When I saw his wife my jaw dropped on the floor literally. This woman was absolutely breath taking, had 3 kids and looked like she never had one! Texas thick, nice full breast, no waist and nice sexy hips and ass. Her face was incredibly pretty, she was well manored, at the end of a 6 year college program for the medical field, and did more things to make me comfortable than any woman I ever dated. To top it off he said she is everything in the bed. I couldn't get over it, me personally it would take the jaws of life to get me out of that woman, so I could not imagine having time or the desire to cheat. I asked why they did it like they do and he said, "it just works for them". He said if she wanted to she could do the same but she doesn't for some reason.
They seem pretty happy together, I have never heard him complain about his wife or family. So maybe to each there own, but I was curious as to what you thought.
- Ceasar
Edited by Ceasar 2008-06-08 1:28 PM
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| Wow! I know a couple who have an open relationship. It works for them, too. Could I see myself in one? I don't know.....we'd have to have some SERIOUS boundaries set up and be perfectly honest about who we're seeing. |
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Location: ATX (austin, TX) | Open relationship? Negative. |
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Location: HOUSTON (BABY!) | I think that people want this kinda thing but really can't handle it in the end....
@beljam --- that was funny! |
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| People do this everyday without calling it that, when a woman stays with a man who she knows is cheating on her, they have an open relationship. She just may never admit to it, but it is what it is. |
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Location: SW Side (The house with the lights still on...) | See I view it as cheating still even if she knows that i'm doing it but doesn't question me about it. But if you are telling me to go get with another woman then I view it as "open". Me personally I don't think I can have an open relationship, i'm a hipocrite like that. Whats good for me is NOT good for my gal. I'd be sick if I knew another man touched my gal. |
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| I'm like a 4 year old in that aspect, I don't like to share! |
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| No. |
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| UH that would be a NO! |
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Location: Mango Grove | Interesting, very interesting. I think I will have to say no. |
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Location: SW Side (The house with the lights still on...) | Alright you know what... Here is the thing. If your guy or gal is a certified Nympho but you love the relationship in all other aspect but just can't keep up in the bed, would this be an option? Or is the emotional attachement just too much and you would try to force the other person to "come down" to your level of sexual activity? Just curious, u know me. |
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| That would be a Whitney Houston sized "hell to the Naw" on the open relationship thing. |
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| Ceasar - 2008-06-09 10:19 AM
Whats good for me is NOT good for my gal. I'd be sick if I knew another man touched my gal.
I think this is what kills this arrangement for most cats.
@ Ceas - I just knew your original post was gonna get juicy and end with your boy's wife and you and maybe your boy (No Homo)in bed or on the couch. I don't know about him calling for a pep talk...wonder if she gave him some new lines to try out. |
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Location: SW Side (The house with the lights still on...) | What you say Hershaw..."Hell to the Naw !". I don't do the Homosexual fantasies homie. His wife is all that for real and if he wasn't my close friend & she was just the girl of a dude I knew... Hell yeah she'd be got. I would have been in dat azz, & setting her up for the "you need to leave that jigga" moment.
Mean while i'm off the i'm looking for a serious relationship and the right woman type thing. I just opened the "Chop Shop" back up as of this past weekend... And judging by the line the word is out !
Edited by Ceasar 2008-06-18 3:16 PM
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| Ceasar you are "off the chain" playboy. I was not trying to make any homosexual inuendo. I was only stating that I am not with that open relationship thing. My theory is that someone will always end up catching feelings. I tried it and it work out just like I thought it would. Ole girl caught feelings and forgot how to play her role.
But Ceasar I have read some of your previous post and you are "off the chain" |
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Location: nawfside | any body dats been in an open relationship knows that it's da chit |
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Location: 713 Angel Lane, Rainbow City, Heaven | ::WAVING:: hey craig...you still promoting group sex????:-" ::backing slowly out of this thread:: Group sex is jus plain ol nassy!!!!!!!!!!!
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Location: nawfside | ccladycop - 2008-06-20 2:27 PM ::WAVING:: hey craig...you still promoting group sex????:-" ::backing slowly out of this thread:: Group sex is jus plain ol nassy!!!!!!!!!!! don't knock it till u try it mama |
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| i could do the open relationship thing. not with my main gal tho. just with my buss it baby and my jumpoff....  |
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Location: Houston | Open relationships are not for me, because I do not like to share not even a little bit. But I don't knock them either. Some people as a couple can manage to handle this type of relationship because it works for them and it is their reality and can look at the truth for what it is. Relationships are what you make them. You decide the the terms, but you have to be woman/man enough to deal the consequences.
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Location: away from you | i'm married, i'm gonna have to go with no |
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| Ok so is a Open Relationship different from an "understanding" Cuddy Buddy if you will. |
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Location: SW Side (The house with the lights still on...) | It funny you mention a cuddy buddy. I had a girl ask me to be that for her. I already wasn't interested in her so I guess she felt like some way some how she would have me in her life. She volunteered to be a 3 way freak and strip for me if I let her ! But I don't think "Cuddy Buddies" and open relationships are the same thing. |
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